How Men Spice Things Up in The Bedroom
Revolutionise Your Sex Life
By following a few simple pieces of advice you could be enjoying sex like never before!
Sex is a huge part of a relationship. As well as the obvious physical benefits, it’s vital for maintaining the emotional side of your relationship too. It goes without saying then that it’s really important to keep your sex life fresh and exciting. Whether you’re in the first flushes of a new relationship or have been with your partner for years, there are many ways in which you can spice things in up in the bedroom. Here are five of the most common ways guys add a little bit of excitement to their love lives.
Buy some new toys
Investing in some toys is a really easy way to add a little bit of excitement to your sex life. Shopping for them can feel like a mammoth task though. Where do you even start? Well, heading to a trusted gay adult store like Esmale should be your first step. You’ll be able to find all kinds of cheeky buys here – from beginner friendly toys like cock rings to seriously powerful anal vibrators. Sounds like you’ll be spoilt for choice!
Watch porn together
Watching porn together is a really fun way of spicing up your love life. There are so many different gay porn sites out there, so it’s just a matter of doing a little Googling until you find something that takes your fancy. Then you and your partner can sit back and enjoy the show! Porn movies are great places to get some inspiration and new ideas. When you’re watching, hit the pause button and try it yourself!
Try a new position
Sex can get pretty boring if you do it in exactly the same way every time, so why not give some new positions a try? This is probably the easiest (and cheapest!) way of changing things up in the bedroom. There are so many websites you can look at for some inspiration. So bookmark your favourites and next time you’re both in the mood, mix it up a little!
Get a little kinky
Feeling like you want to take things to the next level? Then it could be time to get kinky! Experimenting with BDSM is a fantastic way of playing around with the power dynamics in the bedroom. There are plenty of things that you can buy to help you out a little – from blindfolds to whips, handcuffs to gags. The only limit is how comfortable you and your partner feel!
Talk more about sex
The most important aspect of turning over a new leaf in the bedroom is putting an emphasis on communicating. Many men feel uncomfortable discussing their feelings and desires, but we simply need to get past this if we want to be having better sex. So don’t be afraid to sit down with your partner and be honest about what you want from your sex life. It can start anywhere, even with a cheeky text. Just make sure that you’re talking!
A whole new you awaits!
No matter how old or experienced you are, there is always something new you can learn about sex. So why not take the time do a little research this weekend and get shopping for some cheeky treats for you and your partner? You’ll wish you’d done it sooner!