Category: Etiquette

How Men Spice Things Up in The Bedroom

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How Men Spice Things Up in The Bedroom

Revolutionise Your Sex Life

By following a few simple pieces of advice you could be enjoying sex like never before!

Sex is a huge part of a relationship. As well as the obvious physical benefits, it’s vital for maintaining the emotional side of your relationship too. It goes without saying then that it’s really important to keep your sex life fresh and exciting. Whether you’re in the first flushes of a new relationship or have been with your partner for years, there are many ways in which you can spice things in up in the bedroom. Here are five of the most common ways guys add a little bit of excitement to their love lives.

Buy some new toys

Investing in some toys is a really easy way to add a little bit of excitement to your sex life. Shopping for them can feel like a mammoth task though. Where do you even start? Well, heading to a trusted gay adult store like Esmale should be your first step. You’ll be able to find all kinds of cheeky buys here – from beginner friendly toys like cock rings to seriously powerful anal vibrators. Sounds like you’ll be spoilt for choice!

Watch porn together

Watching porn together is a really fun way of spicing up your love life. There are so many different gay porn sites out there, so it’s just a matter of doing a little Googling until you find something that takes your fancy. Then you and your partner can sit back and enjoy the show! Porn movies are great places to get some inspiration and new ideas. When you’re watching, hit the pause button and try it yourself!

Try a new position

Sex can get pretty boring if you do it in exactly the same way every time, so why not give some new positions a try? This is probably the easiest (and cheapest!) way of changing things up in the bedroom. There are so many websites you can look at for some inspiration. So bookmark your favourites and next time you’re both in the mood, mix it up a little!

Get a little kinky

Feeling like you want to take things to the next level? Then it could be time to get kinky! Experimenting with BDSM is a fantastic way of playing around with the power dynamics in the bedroom. There are plenty of things that you can buy to help you out a little – from blindfolds to whips, handcuffs to gags. The only limit is how comfortable you and your partner feel!

Talk more about sex

The most important aspect of turning over a new leaf in the bedroom is putting an emphasis on communicating. Many men feel uncomfortable discussing their feelings and desires, but we simply need to get past this if we want to be having better sex. So don’t be afraid to sit down with your partner and be honest about what you want from your sex life. It can start anywhere, even with a cheeky text. Just make sure that you’re talking!

A whole new you awaits!

No matter how old or experienced you are, there is always something new you can learn about sex. So why not take the time do a little research this weekend and get shopping for some cheeky treats for you and your partner? You’ll wish you’d done it sooner!

Categories: Etiquette

What Not To Do When Visiting An Escort

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Visiting an escort for the first time can be a little overwhelming, with what seems like a hundred different rules, things to consider and bits to remember. With that being said, having to remember a lot of things definitely doesn’t constitute as an excuse to forget that you’re not allowed to do things that come off as rude, and today, we’re discussing things that you definitely shouldn’t do when visiting an escort.

Don’t Ask Rude Questions

I know this one is subjective as you never know what someone will perceive as being rude, but in general don’t ask questions that you probably wouldn’t ask someone that you’d just met on a date. Don’t ask an escort if they’re clean (it’s her job to be), what their home life is like (that all feels a little personal), how many other people they’ve seen that day (you don’t want to know the answer, and they definitely don’t want to make things awkward by telling you) or their real name (if they wanted you to know, they’d be using it). In general, be courteous, don’t be too invasive, and don’t get too personal in a way that could turn the entire experience into feeling more than a little awkward.

Don’t Try To Haggle Or Withhold Your Money

I know it can seem like a lot of money to drop on one night, but remember that you opted to spend the night in this escort’s company, knowing the price that it would set you back. Don’t go there and then haggle with an escort who is just doing a job for the price that you already agreed to, as it’s insulting to the escort and embarrassing for you – and don’t withhold money until the very end. Money is customarily exchanged within the first ten minutes spent with an escort, and don’t withhold it – unless you wish to make the whole exchange seem forced as you’re spending you time with an escort who’s not sure if they’re going to get paid. Similarly, if the escort is going to have to ask you to pay them, this is only going to end in more awkwardness that could otherwise be avoided.

Don’t Make Promises That You Can’t/Won’t Deliver On

This is a much smaller point than the one above, but it’s definitely one that’s worth noting. Escorts tend to place their hopes on your reviews and you coming back for another booking, and if you say you’re going to do this, it’s good to follow through. If you can’t deliver on these things, that’s fine – but don’t make promises like this to your escort; their livelihood depends on this, and you’re feedback is super important, so a review promised that isn’t posted can make them feel the meeting didn’t go as well as they’d thought.

The list of etiquette rules available for most escorts will tell you if there’s anything that you particular shouldn’t do, but here’s a basic set of rules to consider if you’re going to an escort for the first time, or just if you need a reminded; stay safe, comfortable and don’t make the situation awkward.


This article was published by Babes of London.

Categories: Etiquette